Post by Nicole on Mar 27, 2024 4:52:47 GMT -5
The last few weeks have been nothing but hell. I swear something has been trying to ruin me. Being treated like junk and not knowing what I did to deserve ALL of this crap has been very hard.
The altimatium: " If you don't follow along with my plans with Jason you can't be a part of this family." Fresh in my mind after all that I did for him, and them. "I DIDN'T MARRY JASON I MARRIED YOU. He is not my husband and no I will not do what he says, and if you think I'm going to let you and Jason rule over me when you don't care about my feelings at all you are very wrong. I'm not going anywhere with you and Jason. A marriage is between a man and a woman, not a man, man and a woman."
This just 6 to 8 weeks after we were married. I didn't know what to think or say but I definitely know that when someone gives an altimatium the answer should ALWAYS BE NO.
A few weeks go by and I noticed my husband doesn't even talk to me like he used to. Always short replies always talking to Jason, always mentioning him. Always making him a priority over everything and everyone. I start to ask him if he is having an affair with Jason, because the guy is always bringing gifts and they stand right next to each other and it starts to make me sick 🤮.
My husband is angry that I asked but I don't believe him because he has stopped asking me for certain things that he wanted before sexually and now it seems I can never be enough for him. He doesn't want to talk and has stopped paying me as much sexual attention as before , even picking fights with me and cutting sex off for no reason. Blaming me for being upset after being treated lesser than.
Jason comes by 3 times a week. My husband gives him crates of salsa that I made and paid for because Jason brings by a canner and some canning jars and I'm wondering why. Next Jason brings dishes and a table and chairs set. They are getting along like husband and wife. I am just a third wheel. I can't even decorate the kitchen with our own dishes that I was going to bring home
Now our house is filled with Jason's dishes, canning jars , rable and canner. It's getting out of hand.
" You treat him better than me. When he talks to you, you respond right away." I complained. It didn't matter.
We go to the hospital to see his Dad and I'm sitting close to my husband and I look over at his phone and notice an " I love you" text from Jason. I become infuriorated bur I don't say anything. I lay my head down at night and start having nightmares that my husband is having an affair with Jason. I wake up.in the morning sweating and I instantly remembered all the lost time and how my husband ignored my texts for hours while Jason came by.
The altimatium: " If you don't follow along with my plans with Jason you can't be a part of this family." Fresh in my mind after all that I did for him, and them. "I DIDN'T MARRY JASON I MARRIED YOU. He is not my husband and no I will not do what he says, and if you think I'm going to let you and Jason rule over me when you don't care about my feelings at all you are very wrong. I'm not going anywhere with you and Jason. A marriage is between a man and a woman, not a man, man and a woman."
This just 6 to 8 weeks after we were married. I didn't know what to think or say but I definitely know that when someone gives an altimatium the answer should ALWAYS BE NO.
A few weeks go by and I noticed my husband doesn't even talk to me like he used to. Always short replies always talking to Jason, always mentioning him. Always making him a priority over everything and everyone. I start to ask him if he is having an affair with Jason, because the guy is always bringing gifts and they stand right next to each other and it starts to make me sick 🤮.
My husband is angry that I asked but I don't believe him because he has stopped asking me for certain things that he wanted before sexually and now it seems I can never be enough for him. He doesn't want to talk and has stopped paying me as much sexual attention as before , even picking fights with me and cutting sex off for no reason. Blaming me for being upset after being treated lesser than.
Jason comes by 3 times a week. My husband gives him crates of salsa that I made and paid for because Jason brings by a canner and some canning jars and I'm wondering why. Next Jason brings dishes and a table and chairs set. They are getting along like husband and wife. I am just a third wheel. I can't even decorate the kitchen with our own dishes that I was going to bring home
Now our house is filled with Jason's dishes, canning jars , rable and canner. It's getting out of hand.
" You treat him better than me. When he talks to you, you respond right away." I complained. It didn't matter.
We go to the hospital to see his Dad and I'm sitting close to my husband and I look over at his phone and notice an " I love you" text from Jason. I become infuriorated bur I don't say anything. I lay my head down at night and start having nightmares that my husband is having an affair with Jason. I wake up.in the morning sweating and I instantly remembered all the lost time and how my husband ignored my texts for hours while Jason came by.